When Thrasybulus, who was in love with the daughter of Peisistratus, kissed her one day on meeting her, Peisistratus, when incited by his wife against the man, said, ‘If we hate them that love us, what shall we do to them that hate us ?’ And thereupon he gave the maiden as wife to Thrasybulus. 1
1 Cf. Valerius Maximus, v. 1, ext. 2. Plutarch also refers to the incident in Moralia, 457 F.